North Carolina DeMolay

We are the premier organization based on timeless principles, committed to developing and inspiring leadership, team building, and networking for young men ages 12–21.
We don't just create leaders — we create extraordinary leaders of character.

What is DeMolay?

DeMolay International is the premier youth leadership organization for young men ages 12 to 21. Founded in 1919, DeMolay provides a safe, moral environment where members develop leadership and life skills that prepare them to be tomorrow's citizens, husbands, fathers, and leaders.

With chapters in all 50 states and several countries, DeMolay currently has thousands of active members worldwide.

Young men in DeMolay International
DeMolay Members attending the DeMolay International Conclave in Florida

What are the requirements to join and what is the process for joining?

How Do I Join?

To become a DeMolay, a young man must:

  • Be between 12 and 21 years old
  • Be of good character and reputation
  • Believe in a Supreme Being

The process is simple: complete a short application, pay the chapter fee, and be voted in by the members. After election, you'll experience our powerful two-part induction ceremony.

Group of young men smiling
Brotherhood starts here

The Induction Ceremony

The DeMolay experience begins with a two-degree ceremony presented entirely by the young men themselves.

Initiatory Degree - Introduces the seven cardinal virtues and founding principles.
DeMolay Degree - A dramatic play about Jacques DeMolay, the last Grand Master of the Knights Templar, teaching the ultimate lesson of loyalty to beliefs, family, friends, and country.

Ceremonial robes
The DeMolay Degree — a powerful lesson in loyalty

The Vows of a DeMolay

  • I promise to be a better son
  • I promise to love and serve God, my country, and my fellow men
  • I promise to honor and protect every woman
  • I promise to slander no one
  • I promise to aid and uphold the public schools
  • I promise to be loyal to my friends and brothers

Leadership That Lasts a Lifetime

DeMolay chapters are run BY the members, FOR the members. Through elected offices (Master Councilor, Senior Councilor, etc.) and increasing responsibility, young men learn real-world skills:

  • Public speaking & parliamentary procedure
  • Event planning & budgeting
  • Time management & committee leadership
  • Professional appearance & personal branding

These experiences give DeMolays a competitive edge in college applications, scholarships, and future careers.

Young man speaking at podium
Learning to lead with confidence

Fun, Friendship & Impact

DeMolay is about more than meetings. Chapters enjoy:

  • Dances, parties, and social events
  • Sports leagues and tournaments
  • Community service and fundraising
  • Statewide conventions and travel
  • Leadership camps and international trips
DeMolay members having fun
Brotherhood, service, and fun

You May Not Know DeMolay - But You Know Our Alumni

Walt Disney
John Wayne
Bill Clinton
Walter Cronkite
Dan Rather
Pete Rose
Fran Tarkenton
John Steinbeck

... and millions more leaders who started as DeMolays.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is DeMolay a religious organization?

No. We require belief in a Supreme Being, but membership is open to young men of all faiths. We never discuss doctrine.

Is DeMolay "junior Masonry"?

No. While chapters are sponsored by Masons who volunteer their time, DeMolay is its own independent organization focused on youth leadership.

Is DeMolay a charity?

Yes - DeMolay International is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, and donations are tax-deductible.

Are parents welcome?

Absolutely! Parents may serve as advisors, volunteers, or simply attend events and ceremonies.

How is youth protection handled?

All adult advisors undergo background checks and mandatory youth-protection training.

Ready to Become Part of Something Extraordinary?

Contact a North Carolina DeMolay chapter near you or reach out to our state office to learn how to join or start a new chapter.

There's a place for you in North Carolina DeMolay.